I'm not the kinda guy who narrates a menace with providing the solution.
I really don't give 'two rats' about the reasons why...
- Maybe she broke the heart of the son of a native doctor.
- Could it be she wasted away her prime years?
- Maybe, just maybe they stuck themselves to one guy with
hopes of marriage but were later disappointed.
Look around you, there are everywhere, church, workplace,
neighborhood, family etc.
Which is the way forward?
I believe it's high time we called a spade a spade and not an
agricultural equipment.
The lashes fall on both genders, appropriately.
Let's observe some measures that can be taken to salvage this
urgent matter;
(Forget those ladies forming, 'I don't need a man to feel
fulfilled', I'm my own boss. It's deception + boldfacism. There's
a scar inside.)
This thread is in Two Sections; Section A and B;
Section A - Guys :
A) Guys should start seeing ladies
differently.
The average guy sees ladies as merely a *bleeping object*.
With that kinda mental picture, how wan take marry? Ladies
are delicate creatures of God to help you fulfil your purpose
and theirs too (before feminists crucify me. )
Truth be told, very few of our ladies pose themselves as that
object. Very few, I believe. Even at that, Guys, let's see ladies
differently. This is a command.
B) Many Guys Don't Know What They
Truly Want In A Girl
Why the make-up and break-up? It's all in this quote, "When
the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable."
The reason many girls are still single is because guys have
refused to propose and that's also because they're still NOT
sure if she's the one. If you don't see her marriageable, don't
fool her with promises thus chasing other potential suitors,
hence overcrowding the 'single ladies world.' I told one lady, I
can't promise you I'm gonna marry you. Today, we're still friends.
I buy you lunch doesn't mean I love you. Stop arriving at asinine
conclusions. Stop reading meanings into my generosity. I'm
different.
C) Money and Diamond isn't all a Wife-
Material needs.
The saying goes, 'if she's in love with you just because you're
rich, she ain't a wife material.'
True ladies abound who want to build a home with you and
your 'wretched purse'. Look out for them. Don't generalize that
all girls are after the cash. Nada! That's archaic and shameful.
There is more to marriage. Don't go for the uneducated girls
just because you feel you can't 'afford' the educated and retty
model who read Medicine. Why must you think poor before you
'die'? Infact, those other ones are not the solution. Your
thinking is.
If I see what I want in any lady, your social status in
inconsequential. Highest, you turn me down which all guys are
used to, lol. Every setback is a setup for a superfluous
comeback.
Section B (Ladies)
A) 'Clock is Ticking' ain't a delusional
phrase but an obvious reality.
Many ladies don't really know that there is time for everything.
Abeg open Eccl.3:1-13 and read biko. You're 21 and counting
how many guys you've 'chopped' and didn't 'chop' you back. That
phase of life is very brief. Birthday party after birthday parry
and you are already close to 30 and your fleshy flesh ain't as
inviting as they used to be.
Those guys you friendzoned are
now married with kids while you are there confessing, "My time
is coming."
Hello, wake up and smell the coffee, it's a bit cold
now. Stop being repulsive and irritating when guys approach you
today. Be nice and courteous. I remember LADY X who happily
gave me her number, only for me to call days later and she
starts forming, "call me later, I'm busy." I was like, who taught
you this did a pretty awful job. So harrowing. Number Deleted,
Life goes on!
Ladies, be nice to guys today. It's one of them that might
marry you or recommend you to your *superman*. You mustn't
stay single till 30 to learn this.
B) Having an inaccurate measurement of
a successful spouse.
How do you measure a successful guy? Must he have a car?
Good and fine, if he has. That's still not the yardstick.
Was once eyeing a lady when I asked about her, someone told
me her REQUIREMENT. I retraced my steps. I'll be there soon,
yea. Almost all the guys who asked for her hand are happily
married. Do ladies have different privy parts Haba! Ladies,
measure success by his dreams, prospect and daily efforts. How
many ladies saw greatness in Mark Zuckerberg in Harvard
dormitory? Only one gentle-looking, purpose-driven Priscilla
Xang. Where were all the 'runs girls'? I'm discouraging the
reason ladies wait endlessly for "Mr Right".
They look towards successful failures. They look at liabilities
and demean assets. If you want to be a 'mummy' in church
tomorrow, marry a pastor. Don't marry a bouncer that you would
start dragging to church and forcing him to open a ministry.
#yeye
C). "I DON'T CARE" attitude.
Lols, I told her, 'walk like a lady at times na. Not walking like a
soldier heading for Sambisa"
She literally interrupted me with, "Any man that doesn't like
the way I walk should go to *****." Okay o. I went away also.
The truth is, if you don't kinda do the unusual, you might not
get the unusual. Step out. Break out. Be rightly positioned.
How can a guy love you for who you are? When you can't cook
common egusi soup well, you aren't domesticated. You lack
manners. On top all, you now joined them feminist- claiming
right with you 'olowoorimi'. Who are you and what can you give
him that he can't get elsewhere. Eish! He can get s*x outside
from younger girls.
Get prepared! I-don't-care might be the reason no one cares
about you but keep hurting you emotionally, year in, year out!
Change!
Do you know? The world population is
about 7.7billion and roughly 22% are
young unmarried ladies. That means over
1.5 billion ladies are still single. Don't
allow Amarachi do shakara for you jare!
SUMMARY; There are no general reasons why guys and
ladies stay so late before choosing someone. Different strokes
for different folks. If you have to go spiritual, it's okay. Shiloh
2017 is around the corner again. Meanwhile, make the work
easy for God by applying any of these. Good morning.
June 21, 2017
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