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Tuesday, July 18, 2017

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The Best And Suitable way in Grooming Your Children



Whose responsibility is it to groom children in morally chaste ways especially in there last days? Funny enough, many parents have relegated this God-given responsibility to teachers, media, housemaids, pastors and peers of their kids. And with what rewards? Wayward children.

Children end up learning every bad things and vices from many teachers, media, and peers. How?

Talk of teachers. Some teachers are even the ones who in 7th reduce sexual immorality vis a vis sexual intercourse to the children. Some teachers ra.pe their students. Don't be surprised, it's all over the media. If a teacher can do that to your child, why leave your child's grooming to him? You are putting fire under the roof. Not only for girl child, but boys equally.

Talk of peers. What good can come out of kids peer pressures these days? None! Those kids out there teach themselves teen s*x, smoking, gambling, Yahoo Yahoo, and many other vices. They teach one another wrong lessons about money and life. In short, you are destroying your child's life if you leave him to learn life lessons from his/her peers.

Talk of the media. Music and entertainment and TV. These days when you stumble upon programs and shows and music, what do you see? Immorality, gambling, perverted shows and talks. None of these will make a child wise. See music videos that are not aired unless nude girls are displayed in large quantities. Movies are filled with wrong lessons. Wordings of music are so bad that your children cannot learn any good lesson of life from them. Oh, gone are those days when music will teach you real life lessons. So, if you leave your child to pick up lessons from these, you are destroying their future. The lifestyles of the artists and celebrities will not help your child. We know that.

Talk of house maids. Arghhh. Worst. It's all over the media. Some of them will sell your children for money and disappear. Some will kill. These risks are not worth it. Some will even rape your girl child or teach the boy child perverted things. Parent, wake up!

OK, did I hear you suggest church pastors and the acclaimed men of God? Well, you are 0n your own. First check out the kids of these ones before entrusting your kids. Second, many of them are out there for money. Third, we have many wolves in sheep's clothing as the Messiah prophesied. You are on your own!

From the foregoing, you can see that only you parents love your children wholeheartedly. Only you can give them the true and genuine love from the heart without hurting them. Then, why risk the future of your kids by delegating your god-given responsibility to untrustworthy people?

I know. You are too busy these days. In fact, you go up and down so that the family will not surfer. Yes. But it's about priority. Why get so much money to raise a child that has no future?

Remember this: We cannot always prepare the future for our children, but we can prepare our children for the future.

It's a powerful quotation of life and parenting. Take this to heart. Your money does not guarantee your child's bright future. Children who lack good wealth management skills will still squander the inheritance.

In effect, build solid foundation for your children as they grow up. Set good examples with your life style as they keep mirroring you while they grow up. Teach them morals and solid survival skills of life. Show them love. Give them quality time. Don't leave their training in the hands of schools, peers, teachers, pastors, media, or housemaids. They will destroy your child, your future.

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